Christmas Plans
I thought I would offer a few of my Christmas plans here. First, a few general notes. I will be off work from the 24th until January 11th. Throughout the holy season I am going to try to get to daily mass as often as I can, and pray as much of the office I can. We try to visit some of our local friends from church throughout the Christmas season. I think it is good for the kids to see other families celebrate the real Christmas season. They are becoming increasingly aware that most of their extended family considers Christmas to be over after the last present is unwrapped.
Christmas Eve: For practical reasons the Christmas decorations will probably all be up by Christmas Eve. But any finishing touches required will be finished on that day. We’ll try to get the house tidied up. I’ll keep the Christmas lights off until after first Vespers of Christmas. Then we will have a nice tree lighting including some prayers. Then we will put on the Christmas Carols and have our Christmas Eve dinner. I plan to observe the traditional vigil fast until midnight, but honestly the Christmas Eve dinner will probably fill me up for the night anyway. I will read some Christmas stories to the kids, and we might watch a Christmas movie.
Christmas Morning: We get each child three modest presents, a stocking with small items and toys (like stickers, crayons, little green army men, etc) and I like to fill the tree with candies and treats, especially candy canes (I do this after the kids go to bed on Christmas Eve). Sometimes I put a special hidden object in the tree and the one who finds it first wins an extra treat. After presents are done we have a nice Christmas breakfast. Then we enjoy the rest of the morning together before heading off to 11am High Mass.
Remainder of Christmas day: After we get back from mass we start getting the Christmas feast ready, and just try to enjoy the rest of the day. We might briefly stop over at nearby friends’ houses and share some Christmas desserts and fine drink.
Remainder of the Octave: We are normally visiting family during most, if not all, of the Octave of Christmas so we don’t really have the chance to develop many customs. It’s always a bit distressing because the children hear most of their family make comments like, “well now it’s all over,” or “all that preparation and it’s over just like that.” Especially sad is when we have to witness trees being unceremoniously taken down even before the Octave day. Fortunately this year, we will be back from visiting by the 29th, so that sort of thing should be minimal. In any case, I want to get a bottle of wine blessed for St. john’s day. There is special blessing for it in the Roman Ritual (or so I am told). If we were home, we might do some special decoration on the baby’s crib for the Feast of the Holy Innocents. Also on St. Stephan’s Day I like to tell the children the story of Good King Wenceslaus. We also set the Wise Men up away from the our Nativity scene and move them a little closer each day until they arrive on Epiphany.
Octave day of Christmas: We go to Mass of course, being a holy day of obligation. We basically have a repeat of our Christmas dinner. To make it easier we freeze some of the leftovers from Christmas Day. I also restock the tree with treats for the kids to find in the morning.
Twelfth Day of Christmas: On 12th night we have a little party with a “Kings Cake.” There is a little trinket in the cake and whoever finds it gets to be the Epiphany King (or Queen). The king gets to pick what the kids have for snacks, if we watch a movie he picks which one, and things like that. I think last year we even let them pick dinner for the Octave of Epiphany.
Epiphany: On Epiphany the children wake up to find one more present. This present is always a religious item of some sort. Again, we go to high mass, and try to have a nice meal.
Octave of Epiphany: This is the last day we light the tree. The next (practical) day it will be undecorated, and cut up for firewood for next year. Maybe I will read Hans Christian Andersen’s “The Fir Tree.”

Today is the feast of St.Luke even though it gets overshadowed by Sunday. As I have mentioned
Another point made in the Golden Legend is that Luke’s gospel is the only one that has a lot of the details about Christmas. This indicates that he spoke to Mary about these things more than the others. I think this point, coupled with the painting shows what a fondness Luke had for Our Lady, which is really just another way that he manifests Christ in his own life.